Oh, to be expecting. A magical time, really. Nine months of mystery in which parenthood is a locked door and you spend most of your time imagining what it’s like on the other side.
Having now lived nine months on the other side, I have some insider information.
Before having a child, I had a lot of questions.
What will she look like?
Will she be healthy?
How will my wife handle labor?
Who will I become?
Let’s be honest: the first few weeks with a newborn is strange. You’ve waited nine months imagining your new life ahead of you, and somewhere in that wonder world fantasy of flowers and rainbows was your doe-eyed newborn child sitting calm as a monk in a Moses basket. And every time you looked at her, you couldn’t imagine loving anything more.
The reality of this fantasy world is your house is a mess, your newborn seems to be forever crying, and that doe-eyed look is really just a blank stare that says, “You have no idea what you’re doing, do you?”
Hi. My name is HypeDad and it’s been two months since my last post.
Hi, HypeDad.
Yes, this is the introduction to the erratic blogger’s therapy group. It’s been two months since my last post, which officially makes me the spasmodic blogger I said I’d never become. Then again, I said a lot things before becoming a father. Funny how parenthood changes all of that.
It’s no coincidence my blogging absence aligns with the birth of our first child. I’ve been busy parenting, which I’ve learned is not dissimilar to Fight Club.
UPDATE #2: Parents Magazine publishes an article on our video: http://www.parents.com/blogs/everything-pregnancy/2015/03/31/everything-pregnancy/this-time-lapse-pregnancy-video-nails-all-the-cute-trends/?socsrc=pmmfb1504015
UPDATE: Daily Mail, the largest English-speaking news site in the world, has published an article about our video: http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-3018575/Nine-months-minutes-Couple-create-quirky-time-lapse-pregnancy-video-yawning-newborn-dog-starring-final-shot.html
Fox 40, a local news channel, shared our pregnancy time lapse video over the weekend. Very cool.
SACRAMENTO —
A Sacramento couple — and their Boston Terrier Benson — have gained some attention on the Internet after putting together a rather cute video documenting their entire pregnancy.
After learning of his wife’s pregnancy, Cole Cuchna, a local barista with a music degree from Sacramento State, “wanted to join the growing movement of more involved dads,” he writes on his blog.
The blog, called HypeDad, is exactly what Cuchna created in order to join that movement. “I want to create a voice for culture-forward dads in flyknits. A community of eighties’ babies maintaining relevancy through fatherhood,” he writes.
The video is called Chalkboard Baby – A Pregnancy Time Lapse, and it features Cuchna, his wife, B Zeboski Cuchna, and their Boston Terrier named Benson. Throughout the video you can see B progress through her pregnancy, as well as Cole’s work of painting the walls of the nursery…
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